I WOULD like to say to the woman who wrote in saying she had just finished a long relationship.

I went through the exact same thing and it took me over a year before I was able to move on. He obviously didn't want you if he just left and married someone else.

It seems really difficult at first but you have to cut all ties if you are going to get through it. The worst thing you can do is try finding any excuse to either bump into him or ring him up because things will never be the same.

Miss U, Bolton