Blackburn woman quits school in gender row (From Lancashire Telegraph)
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Blackburn woman quits school in gender row
10:50am Friday 12th June 2009 in News
By Shuiab Khan
A SCHOOL administrator has quit her job after a malicious e-mail campaign claiming she is a man.
The Al-Islah Muslim Girl’s School, Audley Range, Blackburn, sent a letter to parents saying they had ‘irrefutable medical evidence’ Shifa Patel ‘was a female’ despite ‘concerns raised by parents’ over her gender.
But it said the school had reluctantly accepted her resignation due to the strain of the allegations.
Ms Patel said she hoped that, having provided ‘medical evidence’, the rumours would stop immediately.
Police had been called to the school after a group of around 15 angry people turned up and demanded the sacking of Ms Patel.
Ms Patel wears a hijab and full Jhaba (full length robe). The emails circulated among parents contained private photographs of Ms Patel with short hair and wearing a shirt and trousers.
It is believed the campaign was started after someone copied the pictures from a page on social networking site Facebook.
Ms Patel said: “The people who have done this have hurt me so badly. I will remember them at the moment before I die and and I never forgive those who did this to me.”
In some of the pictures Ms Patel is pictured alongside acting headteacher Fatima Patel.
Ms Fatima said: “It is very disconcerting that this has all happened during children’s exam time.
“When some parents approached me I said to them I will take the Quran in my hand and swear to tell the truth.
“But they were more concerned with getting a GP’s certificate for Shifa.
“What does that say about some people?
“This incident has affected me and Shifa and it will take a lot to get her confidence back.
“We must add that some parents have come and supported us.”
The Governing body also backed Ms Patel, saying her ‘unquestionable work ethic and professionalism’ had never been in doubt.
Sergeant John Rigby, of the minorities team at Lancashire Constabulary, said: “Police were called to the school after reports that people were trying to damage school doors.
“When we arrived a group of 10 to 15 people were outside the school.
"I must point out neither the school nor the mosque was raided.
“This is an entirely internal school matter and police were simply there to calm the situation down.”
Comments(48)
Haq
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4:29pm Fri 12 Jun 09
audleylad52
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4:49pm Fri 12 Jun 09
audleylad52
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4:54pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Brian Todd
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4:59pm Fri 12 Jun 09
If the employee is able to do the job required there would seem to be no justification in the unwnated interest of others. We all have a right to privacy.
pete08
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5:02pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Haq wrote:please enlighten me on how they have breached the care to the children? If you took time to read the article you will see the governing body has said "her unquestionable work ethic and professionalism has never been in doubt". If she enjoys a ciggy and a pint in her own time then good for her, to drive her out of school for wearing pants and a shirt is absilutely disgraceful. I hope she goes on to teach at a school were parents arent so narrow minded
As usual the school committee is burying their collective head in the sand and looking to play the blame game. I have seen the pictures and although I have no wish to question the person concerned's sexuality what is worrying is the lifestyle of these two individuals? Here are two people at a private Islamic School for girls which promotes Islamic ethos and values yet the pictures clearly shows one holding a pint in her hand, smoking and dressed in man's attire? where's the Hijab gone? To work with children you have a duty of care to them and these two have clearly breached that care!
audleylad52
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5:04pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Haq
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5:16pm Fri 12 Jun 09
pete08 wrote:Pete
Haq wrote: As usual the school committee is burying their collective head in the sand and looking to play the blame game. I have seen the pictures and although I have no wish to question the person concerned's sexuality what is worrying is the lifestyle of these two individuals? Here are two people at a private Islamic School for girls which promotes Islamic ethos and values yet the pictures clearly shows one holding a pint in her hand, smoking and dressed in man's attire? where's the Hijab gone? To work with children you have a duty of care to them and these two have clearly breached that care!please enlighten me on how they have breached the care to the children? If you took time to read the article you will see the governing body has said "her unquestionable work ethic and professionalism has never been in doubt". If she enjoys a ciggy and a pint in her own time then good for her, to drive her out of school for wearing pants and a shirt is absilutely disgraceful. I hope she goes on to teach at a school were parents arent so narrow minded
Key words:
Private Islamic School, Promotes Islamic ethos/principals.
Life style, all be it private, goes against the grain a little don't you think?
If these two individuals cannot promote Islamic principals then who will?
ConcernedParent25
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5:20pm Fri 12 Jun 09
ASIAN-MEMBER-BBURN
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5:20pm Fri 12 Jun 09
But as a teacher at a Muslim school, she shouldnt be drinking, whether in her own time or not.
I have seen these pictures and they are disgusting, The person named is in no doubt, the person is a man.
The school had promised when i rang, they would give a certifcate from a doctor confirming the person is a woman, would be given to the students.
No certificate was given to the students, only a letter from the principal with no proof.
Also, to work at the all muslims school, the teacher has to be MUSLIM and a WOMAN, not a MAN!!!
ConcernedParent25
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5:22pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Haq
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5:23pm Fri 12 Jun 09
audleylad52 wrote:Was religion ever mentioned? As I understand it both reverted to Islam many years back.
the two claims of parents were gender and religion, (being male and hindu) and demanding instant dismissal. Since when does the law of the UK allow dismissal on grounds of religion! On the gender issue, Apa Shifa was suspended pending investigation, matter was not crushed cried.
Akki
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5:26pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Although the behaviour of some of the parents here sounds dreadful
ConcernedParent25
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5:29pm Fri 12 Jun 09
audleylad52 wrote:fair comment about the possibility of a tribunal, see recent case concerning the same school:
sorry, typo above. Should read; brushed aside. If governors would have done as demanded. They would have been taken to a tribunal. The 'mob' that assembled on monday included non parents.
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They havent exactly played their cards right in the past and from what i gather its the same bunch running the school at present!
ConcernedParent25
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5:32pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Akki wrote:This 'mob' label is totally unfair. I've spoken to another parent who was a the protest and angry words were said on both sides. The only demand was that the headteacher (who knew about this all along, remember the two live together) should be suspended aswell pending investigation
Its fair for parents to expect religious teachers working at religious schools......not tomboys Although the behaviour of some of the parents here sounds dreadful
Haq
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5:32pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Those that have an interest in the school ie, paying parents should concentrate on whether these two individuals are uphlding/promoting/p
racticing the Islamic prinicipals?
If only the Governers took appropriate action when the issue was first raised by concerned parents, instead of brushing them aside all this could have been addressed much more amicably.
audleylad52
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5:34pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Haq wrote:it was claimed in the emails that circulated. Indeed that is why they still want the headteacher removed,
audleylad52 wrote:Was religion ever mentioned? As I understand it both reverted to Islam many years back.
the two claims of parents were gender and religion, (being male and hindu) and demanding instant dismissal. Since when does the law of the UK allow dismissal on grounds of religion! On the gender issue, Apa Shifa was suspended pending investigation, matter was not crushed cried.
Haq
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5:40pm Fri 12 Jun 09
audleylad52 wrote:All I can say is the headteacher, who has lived many years with the individual concerned, had a duty to inform the school body.
Haq wrote:it was claimed in the emails that circulated. Indeed that is why they still want the headteacher removed,audleylad52 wrote: the two claims of parents were gender and religion, (being male and hindu) and demanding instant dismissal. Since when does the law of the UK allow dismissal on grounds of religion! On the gender issue, Apa Shifa was suspended pending investigation, matter was not crushed cried.Was religion ever mentioned? As I understand it both reverted to Islam many years back.
pete08
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5:57pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Haq wrote:I agree her PRIVATE LIFE goes against the grain a little but if she is doing an adequate job with the children then there shouldnt be a problem. How did these photos come about a fancy dress party maybe? are you not aloud to have a bit of fun if your promoting islamic ethos. Sorry i have to say it again NARROW MINDED. Why not get someone like choudary in to promote his version of islam
pete08 wrote:Pete
Haq wrote: As usual the school committee is burying their collective head in the sand and looking to play the blame game. I have seen the pictures and although I have no wish to question the person concerned's sexuality what is worrying is the lifestyle of these two individuals? Here are two people at a private Islamic School for girls which promotes Islamic ethos and values yet the pictures clearly shows one holding a pint in her hand, smoking and dressed in man's attire? where's the Hijab gone? To work with children you have a duty of care to them and these two have clearly breached that care!please enlighten me on how they have breached the care to the children? If you took time to read the article you will see the governing body has said "her unquestionable work ethic and professionalism has never been in doubt". If she enjoys a ciggy and a pint in her own time then good for her, to drive her out of school for wearing pants and a shirt is absilutely disgraceful. I hope she goes on to teach at a school were parents arent so narrow minded
Key words:
Private Islamic School, Promotes Islamic ethos/principals.
Life style, all be it private, goes against the grain a little don't you think?
If these two individuals cannot promote Islamic principals then who will?
Akki
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6:05pm Fri 12 Jun 09
you cannot disregard it as 'a bit of fun'
nothing to do with narrow mindedness
pete08
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6:10pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Akki wrote:again i agree but a pint doesnt go hand in hand with islam but if it DOESNT affect her work with children then it shouldnt be a problem. Most islamic shopowners dont have a problem making money from such products do they i bet some of them even use those profits to send the daughters to this school
pete when you do some research you will find a pint does not go hand in hand with Islam
you cannot disregard it as 'a bit of fun'
nothing to do with narrow mindedness
Haq
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6:20pm Fri 12 Jun 09
pete08 wrote:With respect Pete, perhaps one needs to understand Islam is a way of life, be it public or private. In Islam any form of intoxicants is forbidden, period!
Haq wrote:I agree her PRIVATE LIFE goes against the grain a little but if she is doing an adequate job with the children then there shouldnt be a problem. How did these photos come about a fancy dress party maybe? are you not aloud to have a bit of fun if your promoting islamic ethos. Sorry i have to say it again NARROW MINDED. Why not get someone like choudary in to promote his version of islampete08 wrote:Pete Key words: Private Islamic School, Promotes Islamic ethos/principals. Life style, all be it private, goes against the grain a little don't you think? If these two individuals cannot promote Islamic principals then who will?Haq wrote: As usual the school committee is burying their collective head in the sand and looking to play the blame game. I have seen the pictures and although I have no wish to question the person concerned's sexuality what is worrying is the lifestyle of these two individuals? Here are two people at a private Islamic School for girls which promotes Islamic ethos and values yet the pictures clearly shows one holding a pint in her hand, smoking and dressed in man's attire? where's the Hijab gone? To work with children you have a duty of care to them and these two have clearly breached that care!please enlighten me on how they have breached the care to the children? If you took time to read the article you will see the governing body has said "her unquestionable work ethic and professionalism has never been in doubt". If she enjoys a ciggy and a pint in her own time then good for her, to drive her out of school for wearing pants and a shirt is absilutely disgraceful. I hope she goes on to teach at a school were parents arent so narrow minded
These parents are sending their daughters to a private Islamic paying School and as such have a right to ask questions.
ps lol Choudry does not and will never represent mainstream Muslims......sell out comes to mind!
pete08
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6:28pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Haq wrote:i understand islam is a way of life like christianity most islamic shopkeepers dont seem to mind profiting from selling forbidden substances (alcohol) why are these people not vilified and driven from there jobs?? ok a little different from drinking the stuff but if it is forbidden then it shouldnt be condoned
pete08 wrote:With respect Pete, perhaps one needs to understand Islam is a way of life, be it public or private. In Islam any form of intoxicants is forbidden, period!
Haq wrote:I agree her PRIVATE LIFE goes against the grain a little but if she is doing an adequate job with the children then there shouldnt be a problem. How did these photos come about a fancy dress party maybe? are you not aloud to have a bit of fun if your promoting islamic ethos. Sorry i have to say it again NARROW MINDED. Why not get someone like choudary in to promote his version of islampete08 wrote:Pete Key words: Private Islamic School, Promotes Islamic ethos/principals. Life style, all be it private, goes against the grain a little don't you think? If these two individuals cannot promote Islamic principals then who will?Haq wrote: As usual the school committee is burying their collective head in the sand and looking to play the blame game. I have seen the pictures and although I have no wish to question the person concerned's sexuality what is worrying is the lifestyle of these two individuals? Here are two people at a private Islamic School for girls which promotes Islamic ethos and values yet the pictures clearly shows one holding a pint in her hand, smoking and dressed in man's attire? where's the Hijab gone? To work with children you have a duty of care to them and these two have clearly breached that care!please enlighten me on how they have breached the care to the children? If you took time to read the article you will see the governing body has said "her unquestionable work ethic and professionalism has never been in doubt". If she enjoys a ciggy and a pint in her own time then good for her, to drive her out of school for wearing pants and a shirt is absilutely disgraceful. I hope she goes on to teach at a school were parents arent so narrow minded
These parents are sending their daughters to a private Islamic paying School and as such have a right to ask questions.
ps lol Choudry does not and will never represent mainstream Muslims......sell out comes to mind!
Akki
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6:31pm Fri 12 Jun 09
pete08 wrote:Is that your justification?
Akki wrote: pete when you do some research you will find a pint does not go hand in hand with Islam you cannot disregard it as 'a bit of fun' nothing to do with narrow mindednessagain i agree but a pint doesnt go hand in hand with islam but if it DOESNT affect her work with children then it shouldnt be a problem. Most islamic shopowners dont have a problem making money from such products do they i bet some of them even use those profits to send the daughters to this school
Theres a big difference between an islamic shopowner and a shopowner who looks and calls himself islamic.
Muslim cannot drink or sell alcohol period.
Like i said before, its not unreasonable for parents to expect Religious teachers at religious schools and this conduct was far from it.
NadeemK
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7:20pm Fri 12 Jun 09
I suspect a vicious witch-hunt as all too common as it is in the villages of the indian-continent where alot of these narrow-minded parents come from.
Theres alot of imams and so-called religeous people who proclaim to be the most devout and pious people but in actual fact are the most hate-mongering, spiteful and hot-headed and bigoted human-beings.
Atleast this young lady is doing a great job. Lets face it Im sure most the parents calling for her to be sacked all have half-naked Bollywood girls singing and dancing seductively beaming out of their televisions at home. Theres also alot of these very same parents who wouldent think twice in conning other people.
This is a vicious with-hunt and it stinks
MYVIEW987
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11:21pm Fri 12 Jun 09
Why post your personal pics up on FACEBOOK where anyone can download, copy and print if you want to hide your personal life?
I saw the pics as well and if my girl was attending ur school i would have been very concerned too after seeing the pics.
As i see it i would have sent my girl to the school to get an islamic education in an islamic environment with islamic morals.
If she had seen ur pics and u were working there what impressions and examples would fall on her?
What is islamically correct and wrong?
To the governing
body of the school, madrassa and masjid:
Why are no parent governers on the body?
Why do you not deal with and act on concerns raised from parents accordingly so as not to get out of proportion?
Why are some parents scared to speak up?
Why are parents humiliated when they do make a complaint or raise a concern?
Why is a child TOLD not to tell her parents when the ceiling falls on her?
Why do you FORCE people to DONATE for the building of the new masjid, shouldnt it be freely given by people?
People everything is not as it seems in the 'strict' school, the madrassa and the new masjid.
Open your eyes, go see for yourself and do something about it....!
Make it the people issue and the TRUTH issue!
ConcernedParent25
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11:40pm Fri 12 Jun 09
MYVIEW987 wrote:Well said!
To the person concerned in this article: Why post your personal pics up on FACEBOOK where anyone can download, copy and print if you want to hide your personal life? I saw the pics as well and if my girl was attending ur school i would have been very concerned too after seeing the pics. As i see it i would have sent my girl to the school to get an islamic education in an islamic environment with islamic morals. If she had seen ur pics and u were working there what impressions and examples would fall on her? What is islamically correct and wrong? To the governing body of the school, madrassa and masjid: Why are no parent governers on the body? Why do you not deal with and act on concerns raised from parents accordingly so as not to get out of proportion? Why are some parents scared to speak up? Why are parents humiliated when they do make a complaint or raise a concern? Why is a child TOLD not to tell her parents when the ceiling falls on her? Why do you FORCE people to DONATE for the building of the new masjid, shouldnt it be freely given by people? People everything is not as it seems in the 'strict' school, the madrassa and the new masjid. Open your eyes, go see for yourself and do something about it....! Make it the people issue and the TRUTH issue!
NadeemK
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12:02am Sat 13 Jun 09
Within the madrassah environment the teacher provided a very dedicated service to her students and that is acknowleged by many parents and the fellow teachers and authroties at the madrassah.
Its very unfortunate that people have resorted to sleazy and pathetic digging up of ones past indiscrections to justify this vicious witch-hunt.
Digging out peoples past indiscretions or private-life to justify a vicious evil witch-hunt against a good teacher is simply not right. Its just like a sleazy tabloid journalism.
We all have a past and I know of many so-called respectable and religous people who have skeletons within their cupboards . I also happen to notice many girls and women in headscarves and purdah meeting up with lovers and boyfriends
Im sure the very same parents that are instigating this witch-hunt enjoy the half-naked bollywood women beaming out of their television sets at home.
Ones sins are accountable to Allah only and Im absolutely appalled by this ridiculous mob
This mob represents Islam in a intolerable way and that simply is just very very sad.
abduls
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12:06am Sat 13 Jun 09
Then you have the governors who want to pull one back on the parents, they do not want to talk to the parents or come clean with them and this was proved on Monday with the Governors calling the police on the parents. This school was set up and promoted as islamic educational establishment for girls but in fact it is nothing more that a money making scheme for a few individuals.
The Truth Hurts
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12:15am Sat 13 Jun 09
Why have the students been given all the related articles from School but not the so called BUPA certificate??? Also why has it not been given on request?? The so called trustees need to take a deep look at themselves, One of the trustees who is also the imam said to the parents 'If you don't move from here we will push you away' And another trustee when confronted regarding the Alcohol pictures he replied saying 'Don't we all have TVs in our houses thats also haram' Hello atleast we dont drink!! And why are we sending our children to an islamic school?? and why are we paying so much when GCSE subjects are being taught by young unqualified students of the school!
The Truth Hurts
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12:21am Sat 13 Jun 09
NadeemK
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12:30am Sat 13 Jun 09
I think we should question all things that go on within the masjid and madrassah but as members of the parish or community I feel we should be morally obliged to donate to the success and sustainability and improvement of the masjid/madrassah.
We should all question the direction in which the mosque/madrasaah heads but with rationale and calm rather than the hostile and aggressive way in which many people do so.
I think its the age-old thing within religeon...dissent within the church/mosque or whatever creating off-shoot sects and groups
imrank
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12:34am Sat 13 Jun 09
What LET has done is taking story from one person and published the story, without considering the whole picture.
I believe the whole story has making of their own, if she claimed to be a muslim she shouldn't be drinking and consuming alcohol in the first place, this goes for fatima patel too, and to make it worst both the headteacher and the girl were teaching in a islamic school, where people are offended by their actions.
At least publish the photos, so the general public can make up their mind.
The Truth Hurts
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12:46am Sat 13 Jun 09
imrank wrote:WELL SAID!!
many people are commenting on this articles, without looking at the pictures. I am still not convinced that this person is a girl, the test has been taken by her, how could you even believe that, she could've easily sent or taken another girl and take a test. The school should have stood up to the criticism and taken the test once and for all. If she was a girl, why did she resigns, she should have come out and defend herself. If somebody looked at her facebook, it said 22 male.
What LET has done is taking story from one person and published the story, without considering the whole picture.
I believe the whole story has making of their own, if she claimed to be a muslim she shouldn't be drinking and consuming alcohol in the first place, this goes for fatima patel too, and to make it worst both the headteacher and the girl were teaching in a islamic school, where people are offended by their actions.
At least publish the photos, so the general public can make up their mind.
How can you have a profile on facebook saying 22 male and claims to be a female??!!
Honestly I fail to understand!!
If the headteacher acts islamic in the school hours and not outside, is that not hypocritical.. Its the same as bringing a non-muslim headteacher who dresses islamically in the school hours and outside school hours she can do what she likes!!
Why is it an Islamic School???
NadeemK
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12:46am Sat 13 Jun 09
This mob vigilantism is just so uncivilised and unislamic.
Some of the parents behaviour has been disgusting and extremely volatile it seems.
The mufti/Imam may not be innocent but theres no need for this baying mob to behave like a pack of hound dogs.
Its these kind of so-called religeous people that give us muslims a bad name all over from Pakistan to Noorul-Islam in Audley Range
The Truth Hurts
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12:46am Sat 13 Jun 09
imrank wrote:WELL SAID!!
many people are commenting on this articles, without looking at the pictures. I am still not convinced that this person is a girl, the test has been taken by her, how could you even believe that, she could've easily sent or taken another girl and take a test. The school should have stood up to the criticism and taken the test once and for all. If she was a girl, why did she resigns, she should have come out and defend herself. If somebody looked at her facebook, it said 22 male.
What LET has done is taking story from one person and published the story, without considering the whole picture.
I believe the whole story has making of their own, if she claimed to be a muslim she shouldn't be drinking and consuming alcohol in the first place, this goes for fatima patel too, and to make it worst both the headteacher and the girl were teaching in a islamic school, where people are offended by their actions.
At least publish the photos, so the general public can make up their mind.
How can you have a profile on facebook saying 22 male and claims to be a female??!!
Honestly I fail to understand!!
If the headteacher acts islamic in the school hours and not outside, is that not hypocritical.. Its the same as bringing a non-muslim headteacher who dresses islamically in the school hours and outside school hours she can do what she likes!!
Why is it an Islamic School???
The Truth Hurts
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12:55am Sat 13 Jun 09
NadeemK wrote:Seems like you need to do alot more research!!
I really think that if the parents are that bothered by the mufti and imam etc then it would be wise for them to enrol their kids at another school.
This mob vigilantism is just so uncivilised and unislamic.
Some of the parents behaviour has been disgusting and extremely volatile it seems.
The mufti/Imam may not be innocent but theres no need for this baying mob to behave like a pack of hound dogs.
Its these kind of so-called religeous people that give us muslims a bad name all over from Pakistan to Noorul-Islam in Audley Range
ان الله يعلم ما تخفي الصدور
ان الله عالم الغيب والشهادة
Allah will surely make the truth clear!!
And Allah SWT knows best!
NadeemK
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12:55am Sat 13 Jun 09
I really believe its simply just such an outrageous story about the sexality that is creating so much fitna within the muslim community in Audley Range
These claims about the sexuality appear to me as vicious evil lies and slanders and I really hope the people that have jumped on the gravy-train with their own chinese whispers can take a the time out to calm and cool themselves down and make dua to allah amd ask for forgiveness
NadeemK
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1:00am Sat 13 Jun 09
Im sorry I dont read or ever go on facebook or do sleazy Newsoftheworld type journalistic type research.
I do research on more important pressing issues such as our very existence and the akirah.
Allah is the most compassionate, merficul and forgiving
PakistaniMunda
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4:57am Sat 13 Jun 09
NadeemK
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7:42am Sat 13 Jun 09
Im sorry but this is not about any race or ethnic gender.
Muslims are being given a very band name by narrow-minded bigots in all ove the world including in India, Pakistan and in little areas like Audley Range by the shennigans at the Noorul-Islam mosque.
To make this issue into a race/ethnic or sectarian issue is simply so pathetic and sad...its no wonder we have so much in-fighting and sectarian violence within Islam these days
And for the record my parents are from Pakistan
imrank
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8:03am Sat 13 Jun 09
NadeemK wrote:Nadeemk, you are surely quoting on news and stories, which is dumb founded, you need to look at the facts, you need to look at the reality, you are just generalising on the whole subject. we are not starting a war, we just want to know the truth, you cannot judge a book by it's cover, you need to know the content. In these days and times, I could setup an Islamic school, but I could have baseless or non-existent islamic values in my school. WOuld you accept that?
PakistaniMunda Im sorry but this is not about any race or ethnic gender. Muslims are being given a very band name by narrow-minded bigots in all ove the world including in India, Pakistan and in little areas like Audley Range by the shennigans at the Noorul-Islam mosque. To make this issue into a race/ethnic or sectarian issue is simply so pathetic and sad...its no wonder we have so much in-fighting and sectarian violence within Islam these days And for the record my parents are from Pakistan
Also the question here is with the committee, concerned parents and community people went with questions, all their got was abuse, foul mouthed and false accusations. If their has acted right in the first place, and respected this concerned, this whole episode wouldn't have happened. Next Nadeemk, when you try to defend someone, I expect you to know the facts before the truth, otherwise, you will be amongst them for who you lied, not knowingly you will be labelled as liar for whole your life.
Haq
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10:44am Sat 13 Jun 09
Let's all take a step back and try and approach this in a civilised and Islamic Manner?
No matter how damning the pictures are one cannot for sure say that this individual is male and unless we are given 100% evidence then Allah knows best and we should live it at that. We have to remember there are many people out there who are female but look male, that itself does not give us the right to question their sexuality.
Secondly, the school body have acted very unprofessional and have made major errors in dealing with this whole issue, gut reaction from them was to put up defences/barriers and anyone asking legitimate questions or showing concern are seen as trouble makers.
Concerned parents also have made mistakes, they need to approach this in a rational and professional manner.
After all this is a private school with parents folking out their hard earned cash for the Islamic education of their children and as such their concerns have to be addressed.
Why don't both parties have an open meeting and sort this whole mess out once and for all in a cordial and Islamic manner?
Old Timer
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12:23pm Sat 13 Jun 09
A true British way of expression and this will show the racists that many of the people contributing are not dominated by the words of religious elders.
As for the ladies in question, that is a matter, in my opinion, for the parents who pay the fees for their children's education. He who pays the piper chooses the tune so to speak.
Izanears
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2:19pm Sat 13 Jun 09
NadeemK
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6:33pm Sat 13 Jun 09
It was the mosque authorities who had to call the police due to the vile, volatile and hostile abuse from the baying mob so please stop this ridiculous assertion that a hostile baying mob was actually a very good peace-loving group who went to the madrassah in some cordial way and politely asked questions and instead got abused and sworn at. Im sorry that just doesnt wash. That story just doesnt wash with anyone and one can easily tell what a silly pathetic story that really is.
You mentioned false allegations. Im sorry but the most craziest false allegation it seems to me is this libellous slur on a young lady that she is a man rather than a woman.
And finally to say that I will be amongst those for whom I lied. Talk about unbelievable hypocrisy. What an odious indiviual you are ImranK
I cant believe I have even composed this message
Anyway this whole episode is of a huge embarassment and incredible shame on the muslim community.
Its this kind of infighting that makes muslims come across as narrow-minded, hate-filled, intolerant and bigoted and Im disgusted with this whole thing.
audleyboy1
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2:55pm Sun 14 Jun 09
Why can they not just cut the **** and just tell the truth ,if anyone saw yhe pics you could clearly tell shifa was a man , so i dont understand why the schools comittee is lying for.they are trying to defend soomething which is indefensible.
Alastair000
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9:19pm Mon 15 Jun 09
Haq wrote:Islamic ethos and values? Misogyny, anti Semitism, homophobia, intolerance, sexual repression, guilt and ignorance should feature regularly in the curriculum them!
As usual the school committee is burying their collective head in the sand and looking to play the blame game. I have seen the pictures and although I have no wish to question the person concerned's sexuality what is worrying is the lifestyle of these two individuals? Here are two people at a private Islamic School for girls which promotes Islamic ethos and values yet the pictures clearly shows one holding a pint in her hand, smoking and dressed in man's attire? where's the Hijab gone? To work with children you have a duty of care to them and these two have clearly breached that care!
ConcernedParent25 says...
4:03pm Fri 12 Jun 09
I think if somebody has access to the images in question then please post a link to them so the public can decide because at no point has Ms Patel or the school denied their authenticity.
The images clearly show Ms Patel dressed as a man and this is what led to most people (including myself) concluding this was the case. Some of the images also show the headteacher with Ms Patel dressed as a man. The two also live together in Bolton.
A group of parents approached the Chair of Governers with these images but were brushed aside and not taken seriously which then resulted in them being spread to other parents.
The ‘angry mob’ as the governers put it, was actually much more peaceful and larger in number and had the parents concerns been properly addressed from the onset this would never have occurred.
In short this is an all girls Muslim school and even if Ms Patel is a female there are still some serious questions about her conduct outside school and the role of the headteacher who actually lives with her. Look at the images and draw you own conclusions.