I MUST reply to Mrs Windras and her letter 'Minister couldn't, not wouldn't.' If she will read my letter again I never said him or her or any other gender. My letter was written from the heart -- No clergy was at the service of remembrance at 11am.

We the relatives do remember our loves ones every day and expect at least one of them to conduct that service.

Also, yes, I do live out of town now as she said, but have always been very proud of my home town and remain very much in touch.

MARY ROBINSON, Lake Road, Fairhaven, Lytham St Anne's.