On a recent visit to my friends house, I was shocked and upset when new husband made a pass at me.

I didn't say anything at the time because I didn't want my sister to be upset - they have been married less than six months.

I assumed that, when I gave him the brush-off, that would be the end of it but since then, two weeks ago, he has called me practically every evening. I am really angry with him and just keep putting the phone down but I feel guilty about keeping it secret from my friend.

I threatened to tell her but he says he would just laugh it off and make her think it is because I am alone and lonely. I can see how he could make my friend feel as if I am imagining it so I don't know which way to go. What shall I do?

Annonymous

MASSI SAYS,

You are not the guilty party here, her husband is. You certainly shouldn't have to put up with his behaviour. Ask him if he realises that call records will show who is making the calls and that your friend isn't so naive as to believe he is calling you daily because you want him to.

When he calls, as soon as he speaks, don't say a word, just put the phone down. Tell someone else you trust what is happening - perhaps one of your