A quick guide to the sort of things you can pick up for him, her and the kids.

For her Items that will either make her feel a million dollars or give the impression that you've thought carefully about her desires are top of the list.

Things that say 'get back in the kitchen' are definitely out.

Clothes are great, as long as you've done your homework on colours and size.

Taking the trouble to choose items that blend with existing wardrobe or accessories will reap rewards.

You'll score extra points for phrases such as: 'I thought it would go with your...' as you present your gift, but those Brownie points can just as easily be lost if her comeback is: 'Mmmm... is the receipt in the bag still?'

Chocolate won't go down well if she's on the verge of starting a diet (diets always seem to start 'after Christmas' or 'tomorrow') but they'll be OK if she's confident enough to indulge without piling on the pounds.

A luxury collection could be just the job, or something unusual such as a mini chocolate fountain.

Accessories can be subjective, so again do your research, and the same is true of perfume.

If she enjoys MSN-ing or surfing, she's just as likely to appreciate a geeky gadget, so don't be afraid of looking for something unusual in that respect.

For him As far as blokes are concerned, socks and underwear are not the no-no they once were, but go for something luxurious or something cheeky to show that a bit of thought has gone into it.

There are plenty of boys' toys to choose from, too, for grown-up lads who haven't so don't be afraid of going all out to take him back to his youth with something that will give him hours of fun.

As long as you make sure he helps load the dishwasher or clear the table before putting the batteries in!

For the kids Dressing up as a superhero is always fun, but by the same token don't underestimate the pleasure they'll have in finding you've gone for something a little more grown-up than they might expect.

Temper that with a toy that's specifically aimed at their age group - never anything from below it.