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8:30am Monday 11th July 2011 in Edenfield
Exclusive By Sam Chadderton, Reporter
A SCHOOLBOY has been banned from class for having a beard.
Harrison ‘Harry’ Cerami, 15, is a ‘big lad who looks like a man’ and ‘wants to have a nice, trimmed beard’, according to his mum.
Ribblesdale High School, Clitheroe, reprimanded him about his facial hair on Wednesday, then took him out of class on Thursday and put him into isolation when he returned unshaven.
Headteacher Simon Smith said the policy for boys which had been in place for ‘many years’ was that they attend school clean shaven.
Mr Smith said Harry, from Wilpshire, could return if he simply had a shave — and the school’s stance was backed by Ribble Valley council leader Michael Ranson.
But Harry’s mum Kerry has refused and threatened to keep her son off for the remainder of term.
She said she had told staff that he suffers from acne and if he shaved it would cause irritate his skin.
They were told that if he wants to keep the beard, they must get a doctor’s letter to state that shaving it off would cause problems.
Mrs Cerami, who runs an online boutique for children’s clothes, and dad Michele, who is Italian and runs his own computer company, said they were outraged at the situation.
She said: “There’s children at that school with earrings, nose rings, eyebrow piercings, yet Harry’s being singled out for having a beard.
“He’s hit puberty and is a big lad who looks like a man.
“Before he went back to school after a week’s work experience, we took him to a proper barbers to get his beard trimmed and shaped so he looked really smart.
“There are Asian children at the school with beards, but this is not a religion issue.
"He’s just a good looking, hairy lad that wants to have a nice, trimmed beard.
“He would have to shave every day and it would cause him real problems.
“I could perhaps understand the isolation punishment for something more serious, but to be put into a small room for a whole day is disgraceful.”
Mrs Cermai said her son felt school was ‘like prison’.
She added: “If this carries on, we’ll just keep him off school for the last two weeks.
“Harry was furious. It was such an over-reaction.
“When he complained to the deputy head mistress Wendy Smith, he was told if he didn’t like the policy, he could find another school.”
The Ribblesdale High School website uniform policy does not specifically mention beards.
It says: “Hair styles must be neat and tidy and avoid extremes of colour and style.”
Mrs Cerami was sent a letter from the headteacher which said: “Dear Mrs Cerami, I’m writing to let you know that last week I asked Harrison to come back to school after his week’s work experience placement clean shaven.
“Our policy for boys is that they attend school clean shaven. This has been the policy of the school for many years and the governors have not altered this in the recent past.
“I’m sure this will cause neither Harrison nor yourself any difficulty.”
Mr Smith was not available for comment, but in an end-of-term letter to parents in April he outlined his stance of uniform and appearance - and frustration with those who did not back the school up.
‘I believe that a smart school uniform sets high standards and expectations for the pupils and is also a very public statement about us, as a school, within the community,’ he wrote.
‘Whilst many pupils are extremely smart and wear their uniform well, a number do not.
“It is often the ‘small things’ which make the biggest impression: make up; jewellery; hair style/colour, etc.
‘It is not always about wearing a tie and tucking a shirt in.
‘These aspects of uniform are influenced very much by the fashion of the day, but increasingly, staff are having to challenge pupils about these aspects of appearance as well.
‘Unfortunately, some parents do not support us when we challenge pupils about their appearance. I am very grateful to the vast majority of you who work with us to promote the highest possible standards.
‘For pupils who persistently challenge the uniform standards, we will use the full range of sanctions available to us which may also involve parents coming into school to discuss any issues I, or other staff, may have.
Ribble Valley Council leader Michael Ranson backed the school and said: “As far as I am concerned if the school has a rule and that rule is quite clear, then pupils should abide by them.”
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is it me?
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Ian the Beancounter
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Keep Darwen Green
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is it me?
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burner
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is it me? wrote:But we know that this is not the case all all schools!
As long as the rule is across the board, regardless of race or religion then mum and son should abide by it!
Karenlou
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10:43am Mon 11 Jul 11
grumpyoldlady
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Sebaaas
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11:29am Mon 11 Jul 11
is it me? wrote:As a close associate to this matter I would just like to confirm to you haters that the rule is ficticious, after throughly searching the rules of the school it doesnt once mention anything about beards. And in the letter they state 'Our policy has been for many years'
In my day you obeyed school rules and your parents also. You got a smack at school, then you'd get another one when you got home. You had a healthy respect for the Head Teacher. The problems now have been exacerbated by political correctness and human rights. These whingy parents knowing their rights are now feeling so powerful, they are weilding them at every opportunity whether it's in the child's interest or not. This mum obviously has ideas above her station by calling her son 'Harrison' in the first place.
burner
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11:33am Mon 11 Jul 11
Chuck-Norris
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11:52am Mon 11 Jul 11
lwg76
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11:52am Mon 11 Jul 11
Sebaaas
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11:59am Mon 11 Jul 11
lwg76 wrote:Who ever you are, Just simply well done, couldnt have put it better in any other way! People doing as there told are just sheep, again its not fight the man...its just simple independance, maybe this kid feels self concious about having not having a beard as it makes him look older or he has acne etc....either way its no ones business why he has this beard and it should really be nobody opinion whether he should keep it or not.
What is a RULE>. As I quote from the printed edition of this paper. "The Ribblesdale High School Website uniform policy does not specifically mention beards. It says, "Hairstyles must be neat and tidy and avoid extremes of colour and style." If this is the policy, then, a beard is not a "Hairstyle" and this youth's beard is neither extreme or colourful. Once again this shows that the a schools policy is deliberately vague and open to biased interpretation by the Buffoon at the Blackboard supported by the Halfwitted Head and the Cretin in the Council. A schools job is to teach and guide the young and such dictatorial narrow interpretation of deliberately vague rule is doing nothing to enhance the standing of this un-educational establishment. Maybe I am wrong, and the purpose of education is no longer to "Assist young people to take their place in society with the ability to think for themselves and, heaven forfend, make a considered choice" Rather to be obedient clones with out will and personality who must "Do As They Are Told" at all times rather than people who can innovate and add to the pith and vitality of society.
moh
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12:16pm Mon 11 Jul 11
harryzbarmyarmy
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12:24pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Carlost
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brfcianbrfc
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DJ_Jaybee
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1:21pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Bat E Karen
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ladysal
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2:07pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Keep Darwen Green
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2:25pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Sebaaas wrote:Do your homework or I'll stop your spending money
is it me? wrote: In my day you obeyed school rules and your parents also. You got a smack at school, then you'd get another one when you got home. You had a healthy respect for the Head Teacher. The problems now have been exacerbated by political correctness and human rights. These whingy parents knowing their rights are now feeling so powerful, they are weilding them at every opportunity whether it's in the child's interest or not. This mum obviously has ideas above her station by calling her son 'Harrison' in the first place.As a close associate to this matter I would just like to confirm to you haters that the rule is ficticious, after throughly searching the rules of the school it doesnt once mention anything about beards. And in the letter they state 'Our policy has been for many years' And regarding the quote above, I thought bullying was stilled frowned upon? Idea above her station by calling her son Harrison? So this as turned into a debate on schools equality and fairness into petty petty bullying. Maybe its possible that she like her children to be indivduals and not have the name of everybody else whose called david or James etc. And as for Idea above her station, I presume you have no idea about the fact that this family is probably well off and to finish on this comment, what gives you the right to comment on the naming of her child, Victoria Beckham today called her child Harper Seven....so be quiet because you are just a sheep, a sheep that follows the rest of the pack, stuck in a crappy office job, average hair and is called Dave or John and does everything that you are told like a little baby biatch. Its not a case of fight the man this, its a case of inequality. If 'Harry' was asian this would become a huge race issue, not only that but I bet if Harry was asian the school wouldnt have even mentioned it. In my opinion the school did speak politely and nicely but I think its the fact they dont say this to anybody else but the white children, Ive been through Clitheroe before and some of the Asian look like men with their beards, as does Harrison....so whats the big deal it's not effecting his education and it certainly shouldnt be effecting the education of others. Hopefully the school wont be rash here and make a silly decision like expelling him because that will make it a national debate! peace-out
tellitasitis
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2:43pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Sebaaas
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2:56pm Mon 11 Jul 11
ladysal wrote:Just to let you know, Harry is clean shaven at the moment and has been for 3 days and his skin is already botchys greasy and spotty, so he HAS shaven....also believe it or not that is two days stubble so be quiet, you dont know what your talking about so simmer...He has no intention of joining the army and btw in the army you dont need to shave you buffon...one minute youngster should be taught about "authority" then the next there told to express themselves and be there own person, you are clueless you hypocrite
Not enough of a computer geek to be able to work out when it was updated, but sad enough to check the published uniform policy. Surprise surprise, it now states that boys should be clean shaven.... Seriously, my other half has eczema and while he also can't shave every day, he would be unable to let it get to that length as it would be agony: itching and blackheads as well as acne-like blocked pores would make it unbearable. I'm not going to get into the rights or wrongs of the situation as I know next to nothing about the uniform policy at this school. Howver, I think this is yet another example of a dangerous precedent we are setting for our children (and theirs). If they aren't presented with rules which must be obeyed and this isn't backed up by parents, then how can we expect them to deal with following rule and regulations as adults. Whatever her own personal view of the situation, the mother should be telling him not to be so silly and to shave his face (that is by no means one day's stubble in that picture!) and get back to school. If he joins the army, is she going to back him up when he takes a stand agianst his commanding officer for insisting he is clean shaven? What I am trying to say is look at this from the point of the bigger picture and before you lay into the school, see what the situation is saying about society as a whole and what we are teaching our kids about authority.
Bramley Meade Boy
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3:52pm Mon 11 Jul 11
workaholic
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Keep Darwen Green
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3:58pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Sebaaas wrote:Sounds like the typical teenage angst. As sung about often by Kurt Cobain and Eddie Cochron. Get used to it its called being a teenager! There aint no cure for the summer time blues, now get back to your homework, you've got exams coming up.
ladysal wrote: Not enough of a computer geek to be able to work out when it was updated, but sad enough to check the published uniform policy. Surprise surprise, it now states that boys should be clean shaven.... Seriously, my other half has eczema and while he also can't shave every day, he would be unable to let it get to that length as it would be agony: itching and blackheads as well as acne-like blocked pores would make it unbearable. I'm not going to get into the rights or wrongs of the situation as I know next to nothing about the uniform policy at this school. Howver, I think this is yet another example of a dangerous precedent we are setting for our children (and theirs). If they aren't presented with rules which must be obeyed and this isn't backed up by parents, then how can we expect them to deal with following rule and regulations as adults. Whatever her own personal view of the situation, the mother should be telling him not to be so silly and to shave his face (that is by no means one day's stubble in that picture!) and get back to school. If he joins the army, is she going to back him up when he takes a stand agianst his commanding officer for insisting he is clean shaven? What I am trying to say is look at this from the point of the bigger picture and before you lay into the school, see what the situation is saying about society as a whole and what we are teaching our kids about authority.Just to let you know, Harry is clean shaven at the moment and has been for 3 days and his skin is already botchys greasy and spotty, so he HAS shaven....also believe it or not that is two days stubble so be quiet, you dont know what your talking about so simmer...He has no intention of joining the army and btw in the army you dont need to shave you buffon...one minute youngster should be taught about "authority" then the next there told to express themselves and be there own person, you are clueless you hypocrite
Sebaaas
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4:04pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Keep Darwen Green wrote:or maybe im his older brother who isnt a silly teen and think that this discrimination is disgusting
Sebaaas wrote:Sounds like the typical teenage angst. As sung about often by Kurt Cobain and Eddie Cochron. Get used to it its called being a teenager! There aint no cure for the summer time blues, now get back to your homework, you've got exams coming up.ladysal wrote: Not enough of a computer geek to be able to work out when it was updated, but sad enough to check the published uniform policy. Surprise surprise, it now states that boys should be clean shaven.... Seriously, my other half has eczema and while he also can't shave every day, he would be unable to let it get to that length as it would be agony: itching and blackheads as well as acne-like blocked pores would make it unbearable. I'm not going to get into the rights or wrongs of the situation as I know next to nothing about the uniform policy at this school. Howver, I think this is yet another example of a dangerous precedent we are setting for our children (and theirs). If they aren't presented with rules which must be obeyed and this isn't backed up by parents, then how can we expect them to deal with following rule and regulations as adults. Whatever her own personal view of the situation, the mother should be telling him not to be so silly and to shave his face (that is by no means one day's stubble in that picture!) and get back to school. If he joins the army, is she going to back him up when he takes a stand agianst his commanding officer for insisting he is clean shaven? What I am trying to say is look at this from the point of the bigger picture and before you lay into the school, see what the situation is saying about society as a whole and what we are teaching our kids about authority.Just to let you know, Harry is clean shaven at the moment and has been for 3 days and his skin is already botchys greasy and spotty, so he HAS shaven....also believe it or not that is two days stubble so be quiet, you dont know what your talking about so simmer...He has no intention of joining the army and btw in the army you dont need to shave you buffon...one minute youngster should be taught about "authority" then the next there told to express themselves and be there own person, you are clueless you hypocrite
is it me?
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4:42pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Sebaaas wrote:National debate eh? So the parents who have been so disgruntled and upset by this minor expectation from the school have gone running to the papers with this pathetic story and now maybe want to make it a national debate??
is it me? wrote: In my day you obeyed school rules and your parents also. You got a smack at school, then you'd get another one when you got home. You had a healthy respect for the Head Teacher. The problems now have been exacerbated by political correctness and human rights. These whingy parents knowing their rights are now feeling so powerful, they are weilding them at every opportunity whether it's in the child's interest or not. This mum obviously has ideas above her station by calling her son 'Harrison' in the first place.As a close associate to this matter I would just like to confirm to you haters that the rule is ficticious, after throughly searching the rules of the school it doesnt once mention anything about beards. And in the letter they state 'Our policy has been for many years' And regarding the quote above, I thought bullying was stilled frowned upon? Idea above her station by calling her son Harrison? So this as turned into a debate on schools equality and fairness into petty petty bullying. Maybe its possible that she like her children to be indivduals and not have the name of everybody else whose called david or James etc. And as for Idea above her station, I presume you have no idea about the fact that this family is probably well off and to finish on this comment, what gives you the right to comment on the naming of her child, Victoria Beckham today called her child Harper Seven....so be quiet because you are just a sheep, a sheep that follows the rest of the pack, stuck in a crappy office job, average hair and is called Dave or John and does everything that you are told like a little baby biatch. Its not a case of fight the man this, its a case of inequality. If 'Harry' was asian this would become a huge race issue, not only that but I bet if Harry was asian the school wouldnt have even mentioned it. In my opinion the school did speak politely and nicely but I think its the fact they dont say this to anybody else but the white children, Ive been through Clitheroe before and some of the Asian look like men with their beards, as does Harrison....so whats the big deal it's not effecting his education and it certainly shouldnt be effecting the education of others. Hopefully the school wont be rash here and make a silly decision like expelling him because that will make it a national debate! peace-out
is it me?
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4:52pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Bramley Meade Boy
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5:06pm Mon 11 Jul 11
is it me? wrote:Buffon? Maybe with his Dad being Italian he's preoccupied with Juventus' goalkeeping situation.
And while you're at it Sebaas... if he's kept at home any longer he may end up with your spelling and grammar problems!
'They're' not 'there'
'Affected' not 'effected'
I'll end with 'BUFOON' not 'buffon'
Can't be bothered with the rest.
Seems like some others were kept off school too!
Keep Darwen Green
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5:10pm Mon 11 Jul 11
is it me? wrote:Think you're being a bit harsh, If he has italian heritage then buffon is the italian national goalkeeper, and he has no beard, so he may have been referring to him :0) and his lack of beard
And while you're at it Sebaas... if he's kept at home any longer he may end up with your spelling and grammar problems! 'They're' not 'there' 'Affected' not 'effected' I'll end with 'BUFOON' not 'buffon' Can't be bothered with the rest. Seems like some others were kept off school too!
Sebaaas
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5:13pm Mon 11 Jul 11
MrMungus
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5:33pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Ian the Beancounter wrote:Yes and then he did some low level showing off and lost his legs in the inevitable crash!
"Rules are for the guidance of wise men and the obedience of fools"
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Douglas Bader
rovergeoff
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6:19pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Hopping mad
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6:50pm Mon 11 Jul 11
pdb951
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7:05pm Mon 11 Jul 11
pdb951
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CapitaBackHander
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7:42pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Come the Revolution
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8:42pm Mon 11 Jul 11
boyofdarovers
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Graham Hartley
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10:16pm Mon 11 Jul 11
Caricature
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11:16pm Mon 11 Jul 11
slammer
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8:52am Tue 12 Jul 11
Coeur de Lion
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10:16am Tue 12 Jul 11
Ian the Beancounter wrote:And he lost both his legs by not following them.
"Rules are for the guidance of wise men and the obedience of fools"
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Douglas Bader
ladysal
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12:28pm Tue 12 Jul 11
Sebaaas wrote:If that is two days stubble, then why did he need to go to the barbers for a trim?
Keep Darwen Green wrote:or maybe im his older brother who isnt a silly teen and think that this discrimination is disgustingSebaaas wrote:Sounds like the typical teenage angst. As sung about often by Kurt Cobain and Eddie Cochron. Get used to it its called being a teenager! There aint no cure for the summer time blues, now get back to your homework, you've got exams coming up.ladysal wrote: Not enough of a computer geek to be able to work out when it was updated, but sad enough to check the published uniform policy. Surprise surprise, it now states that boys should be clean shaven.... Seriously, my other half has eczema and while he also can't shave every day, he would be unable to let it get to that length as it would be agony: itching and blackheads as well as acne-like blocked pores would make it unbearable. I'm not going to get into the rights or wrongs of the situation as I know next to nothing about the uniform policy at this school. Howver, I think this is yet another example of a dangerous precedent we are setting for our children (and theirs). If they aren't presented with rules which must be obeyed and this isn't backed up by parents, then how can we expect them to deal with following rule and regulations as adults. Whatever her own personal view of the situation, the mother should be telling him not to be so silly and to shave his face (that is by no means one day's stubble in that picture!) and get back to school. If he joins the army, is she going to back him up when he takes a stand agianst his commanding officer for insisting he is clean shaven? What I am trying to say is look at this from the point of the bigger picture and before you lay into the school, see what the situation is saying about society as a whole and what we are teaching our kids about authority.Just to let you know, Harry is clean shaven at the moment and has been for 3 days and his skin is already botchys greasy and spotty, so he HAS shaven....also believe it or not that is two days stubble so be quiet, you dont know what your talking about so simmer...He has no intention of joining the army and btw in the army you dont need to shave you buffon...one minute youngster should be taught about "authority" then the next there told to express themselves and be there own person, you are clueless you hypocrite
mikebuk
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3:34pm Tue 12 Jul 11
indiya5
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gudari
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Bro Abertawe
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Heretical
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gudari
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4:06pm Wed 13 Jul 11
Sebaaas wrote:Don't be so silly! Rules are rules and they exist in every walk of life, whether it be school or work. Let's see how this young chap holds down a job if he can't obey simple rules! If he worked for me, he'd be back on the dole faster than you can say Jack Robinson!
lwg76 wrote:Who ever you are, Just simply well done, couldnt have put it better in any other way! People doing as there told are just sheep, again its not fight the man...its just simple independance, maybe this kid feels self concious about having not having a beard as it makes him look older or he has acne etc....either way its no ones business why he has this beard and it should really be nobody opinion whether he should keep it or not.
What is a RULE>. As I quote from the printed edition of this paper. "The Ribblesdale High School Website uniform policy does not specifically mention beards. It says, "Hairstyles must be neat and tidy and avoid extremes of colour and style." If this is the policy, then, a beard is not a "Hairstyle" and this youth's beard is neither extreme or colourful. Once again this shows that the a schools policy is deliberately vague and open to biased interpretation by the Buffoon at the Blackboard supported by the Halfwitted Head and the Cretin in the Council. A schools job is to teach and guide the young and such dictatorial narrow interpretation of deliberately vague rule is doing nothing to enhance the standing of this un-educational establishment. Maybe I am wrong, and the purpose of education is no longer to "Assist young people to take their place in society with the ability to think for themselves and, heaven forfend, make a considered choice" Rather to be obedient clones with out will and personality who must "Do As They Are Told" at all times rather than people who can innovate and add to the pith and vitality of society.
Independance is the key to life, no one is going to wipe your arse for you in the real world.
AND truely well said LWG76
gudari
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4:08pm Wed 13 Jul 11
Graham Hartley wrote:You were expelled for being the prize pill*ck that you are sunbeam....nothing more...nothing less!
I was expelled from school (it's called permanent exclusion now) for refusing to shave, but I managed to be educated well enough to help this young man in the event of exclusion. To contact me for free tuition in technical subjects without prejudice to anything discussed here, key my name without spaces at hotmaildotcodotuk.
sf1996
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4:54pm Wed 13 Jul 11
Graham Hartley
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9:12pm Wed 13 Jul 11
gudari wrote:gudari, if you had access to my personal file at school some forty years ago, tell me more - did the school know that it was me who... but you'll know, won't you?
Graham Hartley wrote:You were expelled for being the prize pill*ck that you are sunbeam....nothing more...nothing less!
I was expelled from school (it's called permanent exclusion now) for refusing to shave, but I managed to be educated well enough to help this young man in the event of exclusion. To contact me for free tuition in technical subjects without prejudice to anything discussed here, key my name without spaces at hotmaildotcodotuk.
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Excluded again says...
9:33am Mon 11 Jul 11
This mum is teaching her son that you only need to follow the rules when it suits you.