Family anguish after Blackburn Royal Marine killed in Afghanistan

MUCH LOVED David Fairbrother MUCH LOVED David Fairbrother

A GRIEVING mum has paid tribute to a Royal Marine from Blackburn killed in Afghanistan.

David Fairbrother, 24, of Beardwood Brow, was shot dead in the early hours of Monday after his ambushed patrol came under close range fire in Helmand province.

Speaking exclusively to the Lancashire Telegraph, mum Julie, 53, and sisters Ruth, 30, and Emily, 20, said the former Lammack and Queen Elizabeth Grammar School pupil was a ‘daredevil’ and a ‘perfect son and brother’.

Julie said: “We got a knock on the door from two Royal Marines.

"We had been told that if they turned up at the door without uniform, he’s injured, but if they’re in uniform, he’s dead.

"I knew instantly at that point.

“Every day we wondered where he was and how he was.

"But nothing can ever prepare you for that moment.

“I just kept screaming ‘No’ over and over again. He was the sunshine of my life.”

Julie said her overwhelming feeling was one of pride for her ‘unselfish and brave’ son, who was dedicated to a long career in the Marines.

It was David’s first tour after passing out last September.

He had undergone commando training and then six months training in Devon.

He was deployed to Afghanistan in April as part of Operation Herrick 14.

David was due to return home on October 28 and had been keeping a diary for his girlfriend Melissa Shine, 25, from Southern Ireland.

They met on holiday in Ibiza in August last year and she had recently got a new job in London so they could be closer together when he was not on tour.

In a statement, Melissa said, "Dave - I am so glad I met you.

"You have changed my life in so many ways and I will cherish our time together forever.

"Love always - Is brea i gcónaí. Melissa xxx"

Julie, a childminder, said: “It was terrible to have to tell his sisters and then Melissa the news over the phone.

"He was so obviously in love. He was just the best son I could ever wish for.”

David was the youngest ever skydiver with the ‘Black Knights’- in Cockermouth - when he jumped out of a plane on his 16th birthday.

He completed more than 100 jumps.

His family said he was ‘fitness mad’ and enjoyed adrenaline-pumping activities such as bungee-jumping, scuba-diving and strong-man events - one of which he completed in wearing just a mankini.

Julie said: “We had a leaving party before he went on tour. I’m so glad we did that now.

"We would speak on the phone every couple of weeks.”

She recalled how she last spoke to her only son by telephone just two weeks ago after he saw his 42 Commando ‘Kilo Company’ Sgt Barry Weston killed by an improvised explosive device.

She said: “I read his tribute to his sergeant and called him to check how he was coping.

"I knew he must be in the thick of it, but he just told me he was proud to have served under him.

“He kept the details of what was happening from us so we didn’t worry, but every single day he was out there we were concerned.

“Before he left for his tour, he just told me that he had made a will.

"That was all that needed to be said.”

David was a keen sportsman and played for Lammack Juniors and Langho Juniors in his youth, swam for Pioneer 79 and played cricket for Blackburn Northern.

He played basketball at school and water polo at Leeds University where he studied geography after leaving QEGS.

As a child he went to scouts and cubs with Revidge Fold and Bold Venture.

Holding a framed picture of David in his Royal Marine’s uniform, elder sister Ruth, who works for Lancashire County Council, said: “We are just so proud of him. He was everybody’s best friend.”

Younger sister Emily said: “He was a very protective older brother and I copied everything he did.

“My brother was my best friend and my hero. He will be in my thoughts forever.

"I’m so proud of everything he had done in his life, especially becoming a Royal Marine.”

David will be repatriated at RAF Brize Norton tomorrow and his funeral is likely to take place next week.

Comments (24)

9:37am Wed 21 Sep 11

norah bhatty says...

To David's Mum and Family.
My thoughts are with you all at this very sad time.
David packed so much into his life, you must all be very, very proud of him.
To David's Mum and Family. My thoughts are with you all at this very sad time. David packed so much into his life, you must all be very, very proud of him. norah bhatty

9:49am Wed 21 Sep 11

HellsBells89 says...

RIP David,

thoughts are with all his family and friends
RIP David, thoughts are with all his family and friends HellsBells89

10:15am Wed 21 Sep 11

alan7554 says...

R I P to a brave and dedicated squaddie.another needless life lost,lets hope blackburn does you proud


from 24402323 cfn smith R E M E
R I P to a brave and dedicated squaddie.another needless life lost,lets hope blackburn does you proud from 24402323 cfn smith R E M E alan7554

10:40am Wed 21 Sep 11

john1 says...

R I P to a brave soldier
Thoughts are with all his family and friends.
R I P to a brave soldier Thoughts are with all his family and friends. john1

10:58am Wed 21 Sep 11

MattChambers86 says...

R.I.P to a brave lad! My thoughts are with your family at this sad time!
R.I.P to a brave lad! My thoughts are with your family at this sad time! MattChambers86

11:33am Wed 21 Sep 11

thermio says...

A real hero.

Proud to be from Blackburn when we produce Hero's like David Fairbrother.
A real hero. Proud to be from Blackburn when we produce Hero's like David Fairbrother. thermio

12:23pm Wed 21 Sep 11

mavrick says...

MattChambers86 wrote:
R.I.P to a brave lad! My thoughts are with your family at this sad time!
Totally agree.
[quote][p][bold]MattChambers86[/bold] wrote: R.I.P to a brave lad! My thoughts are with your family at this sad time![/p][/quote]Totally agree. mavrick

12:36pm Wed 21 Sep 11

Tron520 says...

R.I.P. "ROYAL". Our heart goes out to the family and friends of David, from the staff and cadets at Blackburn Sea Cadets and Royal Marines Cadets.
R.I.P. "ROYAL". Our heart goes out to the family and friends of David, from the staff and cadets at Blackburn Sea Cadets and Royal Marines Cadets. Tron520

2:45pm Wed 21 Sep 11

dave bax says...

what a shame for his poor family and a waste of a young life. Why are we fighting the war, the taliban are no threat to us and the women over there still cover head to toe 10 years after we have gone in to give them more "rights"! If its not oil its something else but they sacrifice our young lads for it to fill their own pockets.
what a shame for his poor family and a waste of a young life. Why are we fighting the war, the taliban are no threat to us and the women over there still cover head to toe 10 years after we have gone in to give them more "rights"! If its not oil its something else but they sacrifice our young lads for it to fill their own pockets. dave bax

2:50pm Wed 21 Sep 11

t1eck says...

I was honoured to have met David and his family. My thoughts and prayers are with his amazing mum and sisters at this time. What a brave man and what a sad loss of life so young. Rest in peace David xx
I was honoured to have met David and his family. My thoughts and prayers are with his amazing mum and sisters at this time. What a brave man and what a sad loss of life so young. Rest in peace David xx t1eck

4:10pm Wed 21 Sep 11

harlequin2497 says...

sincere condolences to Davids family. Take comfort in knowing that he was doing something he loved.

Paul H.

Parachute Regiment Association
sincere condolences to Davids family. Take comfort in knowing that he was doing something he loved. Paul H. Parachute Regiment Association harlequin2497

4:59pm Wed 21 Sep 11

stanhillstan says...

Stand easy bootneck a hell of a man doin a hell of a job r.i.p. My heart n soul goes out to your loved ones at this difficult time. per mare per terram
Stand easy bootneck a hell of a man doin a hell of a job r.i.p. My heart n soul goes out to your loved ones at this difficult time. per mare per terram stanhillstan

6:22pm Wed 21 Sep 11

halfhearted says...

R.I.P your war is now at its end.
Deepest sympathies to all Davids family.
R.I.P your war is now at its end. Deepest sympathies to all Davids family. halfhearted

6:52pm Wed 21 Sep 11

plymouthrover says...

R.I.P Royal.

Never met you, heard a lot about you.

Sincere Sympathies to you family.

D Thornhill
PO
HMS Triumph
R.I.P Royal. Never met you, heard a lot about you. Sincere Sympathies to you family. D Thornhill PO HMS Triumph plymouthrover

7:42pm Wed 21 Sep 11

carrman2 says...

What a Waste of a great young man, He will be sadly missed by all who knew him im sure, God Bless his Poor Family, R.I.P
What a Waste of a great young man, He will be sadly missed by all who knew him im sure, God Bless his Poor Family, R.I.P carrman2

7:46pm Wed 21 Sep 11

fleece96 says...

RIP peace,thoughts with your family :(
RIP peace,thoughts with your family :( fleece96

7:49pm Wed 21 Sep 11

fleece96 says...

RIP peace,thoughts with your family :(
RIP peace,thoughts with your family :( fleece96

9:50pm Wed 21 Sep 11

netherlandsexpat says...

RIP, a sad loss.
RIP, a sad loss. netherlandsexpat

10:00pm Wed 21 Sep 11

Chris-rostron says...

I will always remember you as a top lad, always had time for everybody. I will always remember the langho days, means alot to have known you.
Rest in peace David mate
I will always remember you as a top lad, always had time for everybody. I will always remember the langho days, means alot to have known you. Rest in peace David mate Chris-rostron

4:54pm Thu 22 Sep 11

corinna x says...

RIP David, so sad and so young xxx I will always remember you at the Clog and the conversations we had about yourselve and your mum xxx
RIP David, so sad and so young xxx I will always remember you at the Clog and the conversations we had about yourselve and your mum xxx corinna x

4:55pm Thu 22 Sep 11

corinna x says...

RIP David, so sad and so young xxx I will always remember you at the Clog and the conversations we had about yourselve and your mum xxx
RIP David, so sad and so young xxx I will always remember you at the Clog and the conversations we had about yourselve and your mum xxx corinna x

5:51pm Thu 22 Sep 11

Ivor Smallcock says...

True hero.

Thank you for your dedication and protection, god bless you and your family.

It is always sad to hear about a soldiers death or injury, it hurts more when they are local lads.

Rest in peace.
True hero. Thank you for your dedication and protection, god bless you and your family. It is always sad to hear about a soldiers death or injury, it hurts more when they are local lads. Rest in peace. Ivor Smallcock

12:16am Fri 23 Sep 11

GIBLUES says...

My anguish. love and pride goes out to all David's family at this time. I know they will want to grieve in private but I am sure I am one of many who would want to pay tribute to David at his funeral, even though I didn't know him personally.

Our service personnel need our constant support where ever they are serving. Bless them all.
My anguish. love and pride goes out to all David's family at this time. I know they will want to grieve in private but I am sure I am one of many who would want to pay tribute to David at his funeral, even though I didn't know him personally. Our service personnel need our constant support where ever they are serving. Bless them all. GIBLUES

6:33pm Fri 23 Sep 11

ROVERSCAN says...

God bless this fine young man,and his family, another Lancashire lad gone, Its a stark reality and reminds us all theres nowt clever about war! Sleep peacefully in the arms of Jesus, although i never new you you will be remembered in my thoughts and prayers tonight,
God bless this fine young man,and his family, another Lancashire lad gone, Its a stark reality and reminds us all theres nowt clever about war! Sleep peacefully in the arms of Jesus, although i never new you you will be remembered in my thoughts and prayers tonight, ROVERSCAN

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