Linda wrote:
My God I would kill for a hot meat & spud pie. Haven't had one in 15 years! Can't get 'em where I live.

Make it yourself, it's easy enough, send me your addy i'll send u a recipe, but don't bloody micro-wave it wotever u do, or you'll end up in the garden shed with an hole in the back of your head.

My God I would kill for a hot meat & spud pie. Haven't had one in 15 years! Can't get 'em where I live.

columbo wrote:
that must be some garden shed cos it looks like a light switch behind the tw@ts head!

EEdiot Columbo! that's no light switch, it's reflection from the bloody hole in the back of his head, where his Mrs threw the spud pie and caused a brain explosion. Well I guess she should have.

that must be some garden shed cos it looks like a light switch behind the tw@ts head!

After becoming very drunk, he told her to make him a meat and potato pie but became angry that it was too hot.

now i might be reading this wrong but maybe it wasn't the meat and tatty pie that was too hot but the actual weather??? that fookin global warming has a lot to answer for

Can we get back on topic and concentrate on the benefits, or not, of the hot meat and potato pie.

BLACKBURNS FINEST!!!

frosty feet wrote:
Except for food shopping twice a week, she was not allowed outdoors

so, if this was an asian famly we would have all the racist bigots all over this page whining about how bad muslims treat women. good to see the english population learning the medieval ways. hypocrites, the lot of ya!

Hey, you treat your Asian women as you please. They are all fat and ugly, have big noses and they paint their hands orange and smell awful!!!

This story is not about Pakistani men that believe that women should, cook, clean and walk behind them in the street.

It is about a man who got frostbite sleeping in his shed after his missus booted him out for being violent! He is now like Akon "all locked up"!!!

Now, do us a favour and go and stop your mates from selling heroin, claiming benefits, spreading TB and making suicide vest you cretin!!!

He has been an alcoholic for 25 years.

DON'T MARRY AND HAVE KIDS WITH AN ALCOHOLIC!

I think its sad that she says he was violent for 13yrs and was is scared of him but yet she would go to the allotment with flasks of hot drinks and food ring round his family asking for him visiting him in hospital etc

A lot of Blackburn "domestics" seem to arise from the preparation of food. Why is this?

frosty feet wrote:
Except for food shopping twice a week, she was not allowed outdoors so, if this was an asian famly we would have all the racist bigots all over this page whining about how bad muslims treat women. good to see the english population learning the medieval ways. hypocrites, the lot of ya!

Isn't this a contradiction - here you are turning something obviously nothing to do with race into a race issue. Get a life.

This has got to 8 Ace out of Viz...

frosty feet you sound suspiciously like an asian racist in disguise to me

To 'Any Justice' ... I am well aware that its not just women that are mentally/physically abused by another person, granted the man abusing woman ratio is higher but thats because women do admit to it more - men often suffer in silence as they think themselves 'soft' or similar for not being able to help themselves and often men do not like asking for help...

this is a problem on all sides of the spectrum and yex there should be a lot more help widley advertised for men but for some unknown sake there isn't.. our hands are tied on that one.

My life has turned around I met a great man 10 years ago and he has looked after me and my two children ever since - we also have our own child now - thats the message that need to be got across to these battered men and women we are not alone, we are worth more than what these scum nflict on us and eventually you will find someone (if thats what you want) that will love and respect you...

respect yourself, realise you are worth something, believe in yourself and you can move mountains...

good for her as said before unless you have walked in someones shoes you don't know lets hope she and the kids get the support they need .

Except for food shopping twice a week, she was not allowed outdoors

so, if this was an asian famly we would have all the racist bigots all over this page whining about how bad muslims treat women. good to see the english population learning the medieval ways. hypocrites, the lot of ya!

Posted by: GT, Burnley on 7:22pm today
Naff off Mike with your pathetic comments. Its not that easy to get out of a violent relationship. Its not just the physical abuse the b*stards inflict on you its the mental abuse.. the fear of the low life coming after you and killing you... you have no idea what it is like to be in a battered persons shoes.. misguided love, the perpertrator always turning things round to make it your fault - 'if you not walk past tv at that moment I would not have missed that scene' was one excuse for a broken nose, falling asleep on sofa another reason.. they turn it round and blame you and when you hear it enough times you believe it... it takes a lot of strength to get out of these types of relationships - and I dont mean physical strength - but eventually/hopefully that day comes but I can assure you it is not easy... but once you take that step life becomes so different. Dont judge this lady because she 'let it go on' as you say, for as long as it did - you have no idea what she has gone through - hopefully none of your lady friends/ sisters/ daugters etc will ever be the victim of one of these scum bags cos God help them if they do as obviously they cant turn to you... dont judge unless you have walked in their shoes........
Naff off Mike with your pathetic comments. Its not that easy to get out of a violent relationship. Its not just the physical abuse the b*stards inflict on you its the mental abuse.. the fear of the low life coming after you and killing you... you have no idea what it is like to be in a battered persons shoes.. misguided love, the perpertrator always turning things round to make it your fault - 'if you not walk past tv at that moment I would not have missed that scene' was one excuse for a broken nose, falling asleep on sofa another reason.. they turn it round and blame you and when you hear it enough times you believe it... it takes a lot of strength to get out of these types of relationships - and I dont mean physical strength - but eventually/hopefully that day comes but I can assure you it is not easy... but once you take that step life becomes so different.

Dont judge this lady because she 'let it go on' as you say, for as long as it did - you have no idea what she has gone through - hopefully none of your lady friends/ sisters/ daugters etc will ever be the victim of one of these scum bags cos God help them if they do as obviously they cant turn to you...

dont judge unless you have walked in their shoes........

Note you are only trying to say Women are the only victims of DV however you have Women's Aid to turn to . Men who are victims have no organisations for help etc I sympathise with you if you have been a victim. Maybe BigPete might know of any organisations that support male victims and Pete you are a classic example that it works both ways fella. Good Luck to you both GT and BigPete for the future.

Wow GT, what a powerful post, and from the heart!

I had emotional abuse but not physical and that almost destroyed me..... and I'm a big fella...

walk in my shoes....

yeh, spot on GT

Naff off Mike with your pathetic comments. Its not that easy to get out of a violent relationship. Its not just the physical abuse the b*stards inflict on you its the mental abuse.. the fear of the low life coming after you and killing you... you have no idea what it is like to be in a battered persons shoes.. misguided love, the perpertrator always turning things round to make it your fault - 'if you not walk past tv at that moment I would not have missed that scene' was one excuse for a broken nose, falling asleep on sofa another reason.. they turn it round and blame you and when you hear it enough times you believe it... it takes a lot of strength to get out of these types of relationships - and I dont mean physical strength - but eventually/hopefully that day comes but I can assure you it is not easy... but once you take that step life becomes so different.

Dont judge this lady because she 'let it go on' as you say, for as long as it did - you have no idea what she has gone through - hopefully none of your lady friends/ sisters/ daugters etc will ever be the victim of one of these scum bags cos God help them if they do as obviously they cant turn to you...

dont judge unless you have walked in their shoes........

i bet he wishes he had that hot pie now.

Little sympathy for her if she stays in a violent relationship for so long.

13 out of 14 years ?