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Brave David dies aged seven

10:37pm Monday 17th March 2008

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A BRAVE seven-year-old boy who battled cancer for two-and-a-half years has died.

David Harry Ashton's devastated mother Sam and father Shaun paid tribute to their son, fondly remembering him as an 'extremely cheeky' boy who 'fought to the end'.

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And his headteacher at St Luke and St Phillip's Primary School, Hancock Street, Bank Top, Blackburn, said the death of such a 'kind, caring, sociable and fun loving' boy had left 'an empty space that can never be filled'.

Dave, as he was known, had been battling with Glioma, a type of primary central nervous system tumour that is commonly found in the brain, since August 2005.

He died on Thursday at Derian House Children's Hospice, Chorley, just weeks after doctors told his parents he had months to live.

After undergoing gruelling radiotherpay, Dave appeared to be getting better.

But during a check up two weeks ago, doctors noticed he was unsteady on his feet and found the cancer had spread down his spine.

Sam, 38, of Hancock Street, said: "He would keep everybody on their toes. He was a one off.

"He was extremely cheeky even all the time he was in hospital, despite all the pain he just kept going.

"That's the way he was.

"He was a fighter. There aren't many that would fight like he did.

"Last Tuesday you couldn't shut him up. He was reminiscing and talking about everyone and everybody.

"He told everyone he loved them.

"It is devastating."

Sam said that he was diagnosed with cancer on the August Bank Holiday weekend in 2005 when they found him not breathing.

She said: "We rushed him to Queen's Park Hospital and they resucitated him.

"The doctors knew there was something wrong and they did a scan where it showed up.

"They first did a biopsy and it came back."

Six months later doctors noticed the tumour had grown.

Sam, a mother-of-four, said: "He had two lots of chemotherapy and they didn't work.

"Then he had radiotherapy at Christmas and it seemed like he was doing do well.

"He never looked better."

But then doctors dropped the bombshell that the cancer was terminal two weeks ago.

Dave's headteacher Pam Scott said he loved being in school.

She said: "Dave was kind, caring, sociable and fun loving who had a great sense of humour. He has left an empty space within the school that can never be filled.

"We have been left with such fond memories of Dave. For example the school trip to a farm when he got splattered with cow dung on a tractor ride and he was cross with Miss Adsett, his special support assistant, for not being able to stop laughing.

"He never lost his sense of humour even in his last day with us when he was struggling to walk he called himself a wobbly bob'.

"Dave will be missed very much by all his friends and teachers at St Luke and St Phillip's.

"He will always have a special place in our hearts."

Dave funeral takes place on Wednesday at 3.30pm at Pleasington Crematorium.

He leaves three older brothers Andrew Dunn, 20, dan Ashton, 11, and Jamie Ashton, eight.

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Maryam, Accrington says...
10:59pm Mon 17 Mar 08

I dont't know David or his family but it was so sad, I pray David's family and friends get through this extremely tough time, RIP David xx

z khan, petre fuel station langho says...
9:08am Tue 18 Mar 08

I just read this touching article this morning it is very very sad and my heart goes out to all his family it is a hard time and such a great loss - god bless and may he rest in peace.

adam blahuta, abbey village says...
9:46am Tue 18 Mar 08

i met david at pendlebury childrens hospital, where we had opposite beds from each other, and despite having chemotherapy he was always funny, cheerfull and put a smile on everybodies faces. So sad to hear the news, our thoughts are with you and your family.

Mr Patel, Blackburn says...
11:36am Tue 18 Mar 08

Such a sad story, May God give patience to his family at this very sad time, but keep up the hope to all families who's children die. These Children are guaranteed a place in Paradise, they will be waiting for you parents. Live a honest and decent life, remember your Lord and pary everyday for the loved ones who have departed us.

Mr Patel, Blackburn says...
11:37am Tue 18 Mar 08

I meant PRAY

javed, Blackburn says...
11:40am Tue 18 Mar 08

I am a parent and to see this makes me upset, what must the family be going through? our thoughts and prayers are with the family, who even though losing a beautiful child must be proud of thier son who conducted his life to the best of his ability in difficult circumstances, truley an inspiraton to us all.my god bless you.

Tanya, Blackburn says...
12:02pm Tue 18 Mar 08

my dad passed away in January this year he was only 62 i kept thinking how dare he die so young..i have just read this story and i am feeling up my heart and prays go out to this family it makes life seem so worthless when soemone we love dies and leaves us but try to think of all the good times. even though he was so young you will have so many fond and happy thoughts of your boy..may the angels look after him untill you can hold his hand again xx

AmeriKUZ most wanted!!, says...
12:42pm Tue 18 Mar 08

You can shed tears that he is gone
or you can smile because he has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that he'll come back,
or you can open your eyes and see all he has left.
Your heart can be empty because you can't see him
or you can be full of the love that you shared.

You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember him and only that he's gone,
or you can cherish his memory and let it live on.

You can cry and close your mind,
be empty and turn your back,
or you can do what he would want:

Smile, Open Your Eyes, Love,
and Go On!

Emi-Mae, Blackburn says...
1:12pm Tue 18 Mar 08

I am a close friend of davids cousin beckie and it is so sad what has happened! i cant believe it! but at least he isn't in the pain now! my heart goes out to sam n shaun and the rest of the family!keep ya heads up and look forward! Love Yaz ****

my deepest sympathy, blackburn says...
1:33pm Tue 18 Mar 08

May I take a moment to offer my deepest sympathy to all this little angels family and friends may you find strength in knowing people share your grief. I will pray for you all and to little David god bless little one too good for this earth you play happily up there with all the other special angels RIP sweetie x

Family, Nelson says...
1:40pm Tue 18 Mar 08

God saw you getting tired and for you to live longer was not to be,so he put his arms around you and whispered "come to me" with tearful eyes we watched you and saw you pass away and although we love you dearly we could not make you stay. a golden heart stopped beating,hard working hands now rest,God broke our hearts to prove to us he only takes the best. Love you always Dave. Uncle Mark, Aunty Cheryl Cousins Lee & Becky ****

my sympathy, blackburn says...
1:43pm Tue 18 Mar 08

May I take a moment to offer my deepest sympathy to all this little angels family and friends may you find strength in knowing people share your grief. I will pray for you all and to little David god bless little one too good for this earth you play happily up there with all the other special angels RIP sweetie x

Jon, Bburn says...
2:30pm Tue 18 Mar 08

Being the father of a healthy 7 yr old boy, I can only imagine what the family of David are going through. My families thoughts are with you all. God bless you and your "cheeky" little angel.

Sarah & Dave Phoenix, Blackurn says...
2:39pm Tue 18 Mar 08

We've been friends for such along time. sharing all the happy times.4 beautiful children being born, your marriage. Now we share this saddest time. Dave was extra special, will never be forgotten. He holds a special place in our hearts. Rest in peace mate!
Love Sarah,Dave, Natasha,Dale,Holly & Cameron ****

Sandra - David's Godmother, Blackburn says...
2:49pm Tue 18 Mar 08

I was priviliged to know such a amazing and truly individual boy, who even during all the months of treatment always had a smile on his face and a cheeky little glint in his eye. Even last Wednesday hours before he passed away, he was still singing the theme from "Max & Paddy", and making me and his mum join in! Bet he's causing mischief with the angels now!
Sam & Shaun, you should be so proud of him - he was a little fighter to the end. Lots of Love - Sandra & Pete xxx

Daniel, Blackburn says...
4:27pm Tue 18 Mar 08

People aren't remembered by how they died, but by how they lived. Remember how David lived - with a full heart and a bright smile, every day. He is an example to us all how we should live our lives.

Rest in peace Dave.

>>>D.K<& lt;<, new bank says...
5:02pm Tue 18 Mar 08

i would just like to say that am very sori about wat has happend about ur child and we hope that ur child R.I.P and god bless uuuuuu!!!!
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melanie, says...
6:02pm Tue 18 Mar 08

david was so brave, my heart goes out to you,god bless little david x love mel and jess

lancslass, says...
6:32pm Tue 18 Mar 08

may god bless you all.****

natasha, blackburn says...
7:29pm Tue 18 Mar 08

he was such a happy cheeky boy, he loved being around people and making them laugh and smile, well he alway had a smile for anyone. he was so brave and battled it to the end. his little heart was tired and was in pain. he will be truley missed and loved by every one. no one will forget him coz its too hard to forget someone that was as happy as what he was. god bless. rest in peace dave. x x x x x x x

christine,martin,cha ntelle.joseph, blackburn says...
7:32pm Tue 18 Mar 08

so sorry to hear the loss of your son david our deepest thoughts are with you at this sad time

Mrs J Whalley, Yr1 TA St Luke & St Philips says...
8:16pm Tue 18 Mar 08

David was an inspiration to us all. He was a fun loving, happy boy, who always raised a smile on everyones face in school. I will always remember David pottering past me in the afternoons for some fruit. God Bless to all your family David, the loss of someone close hurts deep inside and my thoughts are with them all. Mrs Whalley YR One St Lukes School

John Southworth, Hancock Street says...
11:02pm Tue 18 Mar 08

Dave was my Godson.He was a great lad always willing to help.Loved my dog and cat took them both a walk around the block many a time.We always watched the rugby together with food and drink.DAVID you will be missed but never FORGOTTEN love Cosmo xxxxxxxxx

Lauren Southworth, blackburn says...
11:15pm Tue 18 Mar 08

What can i say Dave ?

i speak your name,with love and pride,and smile through tears , i try to hide.
Thankyou dave, for the years we shared.
The love you showed-the way you cared.
Your weary days are over,
your restless nights have passed god gave you peace at last.
We have lost a friend-but an angel gained,those we love dont go away.
They walk beside us every day ,
Unseen,
Unheard,
But always near.
Still loved,
still missed and always dear weep not for dave,
he's free from pian.
WE HOPE TO MEET YOU DAVE AGAIN:-OUR STRONG AND BRAVE LITTLE MAN

LOVEYOU & NIGHT , NIGHT
LOVE FROM US ALL ****

Donna Southworth, blackburn says...
11:24pm Tue 18 Mar 08

To the bravest biggest little man i ever met. I will always remember how you made me smile. May you always rest in peace and be free from pain for ever more. I will always remember our trips to the park and baby grace will miss you x x x x x x x x x

Mrs Ashcroft, St. Luke and St.Philip's Primary School says...
8:09pm Wed 19 Mar 08

Dave, you were a pleasure to be with. Full of mischief and laughter-there was never a dull moment. I feel privileged to have been able to share so many happy memories with you. I know those memories will remain with me.
My thoughts and prayers are with the family
*******

Miss Dean, St Luke & St Philip's Primary School says...
9:52pm Wed 19 Mar 08

Dave,You have left lots of fantastic memories and cheeky ones. Who's going to share my Kitkat now? I wont forget you knocking and giggling through the office window! Lots of love Sam & Shaun and the family ****

great uncle Mick, Hapton says...
5:14pm Tue 25 Mar 08

How will we remember you Dave?
As the half-pint lad,with the ten gallon heart
with eyes as blue as the sky on a spring morning,when there,s not a cloud to be seen.
with cheek,s so red,they could have been plucked from the robin,s breast.
with a smile as big and bright as the sun
itself.
When we are out with the dog,s,the rising sun
will catch a single droplet of dew on the grass
and send a brilliant rainbow of colours to dazzle our eye,s.
That,s when we,ll think of you Dave
When we,re walking by the stream and the early morning sun catches the water just right,it will transform the surface,into a million sparkling diamonds,which will blind us with their brilliance.
That,s when we,ll think of you Dave
When I,m up in the forest,s of Scotland,and the barn owl comes to visit me,he,ll sit but a few feet away,and stare at me with unblinking eye,s.
It,s then that I,ll look deeply into the languid pool,s that are his eye,e,and I will see into his very soul, and I,ll see you Dave,smiling back at me,warming my heart for a few golden moment,s
That,s when I,ll think of you Dave.
You,ll be remembered Alway,s.Never forgotten.
Good night,God bless.
Great Uncle Mick and Great Auntie Anne.
****
xxx
xx
x

Dave, Blackburn says...
4:24pm Sat 29 Mar 08

Having served in both Northern Ireland and Iraq with some of the bravest people of this country, I have still never experienced such a show of bravery and guts by such a little boy. No medal can be given for the bravery shown by Dave. I know I couldn't make his funeral, but I was still grieving in my own way. You are a superb example to anyone that thinks they are having it tough.
It was a honour and a priveledge knowing you.
We will remember.

Dave P.

liam holden, blackburn says...
10:42pm Mon 21 Apr 08

i know him he went my school when i found out he died i was really upset

ume, blackburn says...
3:24pm Sat 17 May 08

david came to my school. i was very upset when i heard wednesday morning in assembly. R.I.P David.

Rebekah, blackburn says...
3:28pm Sat 17 May 08

David came to my school, I was devastated over his death. I will always remember him through my life . R.I.P. you will never walk alone!

lauren N Jade, Blackburn says...
12:26pm Fri 13 Jun 08

i Miss yhooo Dave Mii gowjuss little god brother Miss Yhooo Loads ...**** Yhooo Will Neva Be forgotten N i mean Never

i Didnt know You But im m8s with lauren I hope YOU R.I.P

love Jade n Lauren xxxxxxxxxxx

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